singapore dreaming

a singapore production a movie of singapore reality. everythings so familiar. how people behave. how people live their lifes. how relationships breakdown. how people value themselves. how people can be so blinded. so many HOWs....then it came the question WHY? why do they do what they did. why do they not realise their mistakes. why things happened the way it did. so many WHYs.

a woman who loses her indentity after marriage. focus and energy on the family. forgetting what she used to like or do. her world revolves around spouse and children. neglecting herself. and worse still! does not even realise it is all SO wrong. until something went wrong.

a girlfriend who spent her life savings to support her boyfriend's overseas education. wasting her youth and money on a sooo apparent loser boyfriend who only knows to run away when faced with challenges and blames the world for everything and refusing to accept responsibility.

a father who is chasing after the 5 Cs. cash. credit card. condo. car. country club membership. and finally met the 6th C. coffin. chasing after wind indeed.

a daughter who has low self esteem, insecure and always wanting to prove herself to gain approval from her parents who favoured the brother. almost ended her marriage in shambles because of unresolved past hurts and pain.

i hear it at my work place everyday. i witness it in the patients i work with. i see it happening in my own family. i see it happening with my friends. what's the solution then? .....